Why Does a Sudbury
School Work?
Mimsy Sadofsky[1]
I
would like to start in the middle. Before I talk about the basic features of a
Sudbury school, I would like to talk about two central ideas that dont even come up when you talk about most models of
schooling and that are all-important in understanding why a child can go to a free school and
still get a great education.
Play
and conversation. These two things are different and yet are
totally interconnected. Play is what
people do when they are free to do whatever they want. And conversation is usually what they do
while they play! But first lets concentrate on play for a bit.
I
didnt say that play is what children do when
they are free to do whatever they want: I said that play is what people do.
And I meant it. When I am free to play, I ride my bike, I
cook, I read a book, I go for a walk, I talk on the phone, I visit a friend, I
knit a sweater, I see a movie. I might
do a lot of other things, but the point is that I am never at a loss for what
to do. And the fact is that my mind is
involved in all of these activities.
Sometimes it is through contemplation, or working on thinking through a
problem. Occasionally, I am aiming at
the acquisition of information through experience or through intellectual
inquiry. Cooking may just sound like
the work you do to feed a family, but to me it is a chance to engage in
activity that is creative and also non-frustrating; it is a creative activity
over which I have a lot of control. It
is problem-solving with a solution, unlike so many of the other thought
processes that I (or you) go through.
Of course, I enjoy eating, too, so . . . But the main point is that anything I want to do is
in some manner mind-expanding.
When
I choose to pursue activities with others, to play with other people, it is
generally because, selfish as this sounds, the other people are interesting to
me. That means that they will say
things that I hadnt thought about before, impart information that I didnt have before, or give me a new slant on a problem
they, or I, or someone else, is trying to solve. When you find someone elses
personality pleasing, you want to play with them, you want to
interact with them. I find email to be
a wonderful addition to my life, because it expands my ability to interact with
people on a daily basis that I would otherwise speak to very rarely, and this
gives me much greater benefit. It
allows me a window on a much bigger universe, and a very different one from
that of my daily newspaper or the people I see every day. But it is important
to understand that for me, as for you, it is a personal universe that I have
chosen because of my own personal interests.
The
reason that I am talking so much about myself is that I know that I become more
sophisticated and worldly and knowledgeable every single day, through the
activities I pursue,
although those activities are
not geared toward that. The personal growth is
an accidental bit of fallout. But not
totally accidental. The reason that I
choose my activities is that we all, every single one of us, naturally
gravitate toward the things that pique our curiosity, that give us information
in areas of our own personal interest.
That is why I choose the activities that I want, and dont choose the activities that someone else wants. I only have my own personal development to
worry about. It is just that I dont worry about it. Nature takes care of it for me by sending me
trotting along toward the activities that have turned out to give me
satisfaction and stimulation. I call it
fun, but of course
intellectual broadening is what it is about, and what makes fun fun. Things that are intellectually challenging,
while being interesting, are what pull all human beings. Not just adults. All people.
I think
of play as problem solving. That is
what games are, really. And the more
complex the game the more original the solutions can be. What makes play so exciting and so seductive
to us is that we never know how it is going to end. Play is not just doing something that we understand all the
facets of, in general. It is doing
something where you are open to allow new things to happen.
It
seems to me that the human urge to play is what has gotten us where we are
today. Now that statement can be
interpreted in a lot of ways, but what I mean when I say it now, is the
progress that allows us to sit here in well-lit, well-warmed comfort; that
allows me to use a computer to ease my work; that allows us to fly around so
that we can vacation in various places or so that we can have people who come
from far away talk about some ideas we are interested in! These progressions have all originated from
human beings pushing the envelope, playing with new ideas.
From
birth, each creature struggles to gain competency in the areas that are of
interest to it. Usually, there is a
great deal of overlap between how human beings progress. Most learn to sit and to crawl and to walk. There is not total overlap, but enough
overlap so we are very familiar with the stages of infanthood and
toddlerhood. But why do most
kids do these things in the first year or so?
They are doing what comes naturally, they are learning the things they
are going to need to continue developing into competent adults.
Improving
your mind. Striving to become a
high-functioning member of society.
That is what comes naturally for the human species. And that was what I was talking about with
myself. I never think about it. And, no baby is thinking, Ill be a grownup
with a better job and a fancier car if I learn to talk as well as I can. Perhaps they
are thinking, If I learn to say that word, maybe I can get them to
understand how important it is to give me a cookie when I want one. Or maybe
not. Maybe they are just trying like
the devil to imitate the behavior of their older sibling, or their
parents. It doesnt matter: we all recognize that the striving is
built-in with little kids. In fact,
getting them not to strive is often a problem.
That is one of the reasons we are so happy when they are asleep! Dealing with their education wears you right
out. But you dont think that either.
Most of us dont think about educating our toddlers. Just keeping them out of trouble and
answering their incessant curiosities somehow.
I
can guarantee that I never think: Oh,
I have some free time: I will do some intellectual inquiry. Never,
ever. And I can guarantee that no child
is thinking it either. Never, ever.
And
that, I think, is what we have to keep sight of all the time when we think
about freedom in schools, which is our real theme this evening. We know that we play, although we
rarely use that word. We know that
children play. But what we have to
remember is the higher evolutionary purpose of that play: they play to learn to
be adults; we keep playing all through life to learn to be better adults! It is a continuum.
So
that brings me to one of the important points I wanted to make: It is vital to
play. It is not just vital when you are
three. It is vital through your whole
life. And I will go farther: I will say that those people who are most in
touch with their own ability to play
probably those are the people who are rarely bored are the best adapted for modern life, for life in the
21st century, for life that is immensely stimulating, fast-paced and
dynamic.
And
that is what you find in a Sudbury school.
Students who never lose their excitement about what they are going to
play next: 6 year olds, 10 year olds,
16 year olds; it never has to stop.
They all know how to be amused.
They all grow up playing all of the time, and it has an
empowering and enlivening effect on them and on the people they form
relationships with.
Of
course, playing with rattles doesnt
do for a two-year old. Riding a trike
in the yard doesnt do for an 8 year old. Playing with Barbie dolls doesnt do for a 14 year old. Reading
the Bobbsey Twins books doesnt do it for a
17 year old. Because you constantly, as
you move through life, find more and more sophisticated games to play. You cant
help it. You grow older and a lot
smarter. You are stimulated by and
exposed to a thousand things each day.
You follow your curiosity and explore those things that call to you, and
leave the others aside for another day, or another year, or maybe for never. And eventually you find that you may be
playing chess, not checkers; bridge, not old maid. You may be reading real books about historical events. Or contemporary events. Not text books, but real books written by
people who are interested in the subject!
And those change, too. The
person who is reading science fiction may someday find physics or mathematics
exciting. The person who is picking out
a tune on a guitar may someday be playing a flute in a symphony orchestra.
People
who are allowed to follow their own interests constantly develop. That is all this is about. It is about the amazing progress you make
when you are the person who decides what it is fun to do, and do it, without
being deflected over and over and over again by someone elses idea of what you should be doing.
Freedom
to play is totally empowering.
Sure,
life is often frustrating and playing the game of life is hard work. It is not easy to progress from being
someone interested in learning about child rearing to being a pediatrician, or
a psychologist. There are always a lot
of obstacles in the way. But when you
allow a person to develop in the way that nature intended, that stuff doesnt matter.
Learning anatomy is not, in fact, nearly as difficult as mastering your
native language. So you have two things
going for you as you encounter the obstacles: the first is that by the time you
are school age you have had lots and lots of experience doing stuff that was
extremely hard; the second is that as a very young child, you never expected
that life wouldnt continue
to be hard. Obstacles in fact are
exciting; mastering new situations is totally exciting. Learning how hard you can work again and
again is extraordinarily exciting.
Focus is so completely engaging that it is often hard to interrupt.
And
that is another part of this whole play thing.
A child who can spend hours and hours building legos may or may not
become an architect. But she will stay
the way Nature intended her: she will stay alert to and excited by challenges
and hard work.
Here
is something a former Sudbury Valley student said that I love to repeat because
I think it is so important and fits so perfectly into what I am talking about.
It is about the exposure to new ideas, to new ways to play:
Everyone
was extraordinarily mobile. Trying to
find a kid at the school is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. They'd be there one minute and gone the
next. Mobility was a big part of what
was different about the school from any other institution. That's something that people have a really
hard time understanding. Mobility and
randomness together let you find the things you're interested in. You're not stuck anywhere. The minute you're bored, you zip somewhere
else and find something else you're interested in, so that the whole day you're
doing stuff you're excited about.
There's a lot of stuff going on.
Other kids are doing things. There
are books, and activities, and people for you to bounce your ideas off of, so
you're not just creating the world out of whole cloth yourself. Part of it is stuff you're creating and part
of it is just stuff you're walking into.
Part of the fun of school was spending whole parts of the day walking
from room to room, seeing what was going on in each room before finally
settling down and deciding to do something in a particular place. If you were bored you'd say, "Hey,
let's go see what so and so's doing."
And you'd spend half an hour finding so and so and seeing what they were
up to.
So,
I will leave play for the moment, but not without re-emphasizing the last
point. Students who have been free to
follow their own instincts are constantly focusing on something; usually
something a little harder than the last thing they focused on. They are aware of how difficult life
is. They are not expecting everything
to be fun instantaneously. In fact,
they learn as they progress through childhood that the things that are the most
fun, that stand the most chance of keeping them interested for the longest, are
the ones that are hardest to attain.
Watch
someone draw. I see kids who have been
drawing many, many hours a week, sometimes many hours a day, for years and
years. They have not necessarily been
unhappy with their work as they progressed, but something made them keep
progessing, keep practicing, keep working on their skills. They didnt
expect to become fabulous overnight.
They didnt expect that talent would take the place of hard
work, only that talent, if they possessed it, would augment their hard work.
Conversation. I
guess you could say that I am having a one-way conversation this evening as I
try to help foster understanding of why we feel so strongly that this model of
education is a startlingly excellent one.
In many ways conversation and play are two sides of the same coin.
Conversation
flows freely in Sudbury schools.
Conversation may be stifled and stunted in most other school settings
even more than play is. The free flow
of ideas is really what the school is about, educationally. The abilities to form a thought, share it,
reform it after listening to your own and other peoples input to it, are what makes kids who go to these
schools so impressive. I often say that
our school doesnt need adults anymore. Of course, I hope it is not true, because I like my job and would
not want to lose it, but in a sense it is true. They dont need adults to figure things out for them. We figure things out with them. And, like kids of all ages, we serve as role
models for, among other things, repeatedly figuring out new stuff! There have been debates in our School
Meeting, for instance the School Meeting is the weekly forum that manages
the school, that solves the day to day, and month to month issues that come up in which I could, in the absence of other ways to
identify the speakers, tell you which ones had spent a lot of years in this
sort of an educational setting and which were new to it. Not because the ones who have been here a
long time are the most intellectually acute on all subjects, not because they
are the best kids, and not
because they are the oldest, but because they can hear a subtle, complicated
exposition and understand it in its entirety, and make real contributions based
on their own ideas and experiences. I
am going to repeat that: the length of time a kid has spent in a Sudbury school
tells you a lot about how well they can hear. How well they can understand what they hear
if it is difficult to understand.
Because that is totally related to how they have spent their time:
talking and listening. Figuring stuff
out. Solving problems.
And
please be aware of this: there are no trivial conversations. At least not in these schools. Of course, there are pleasantries, but that
is not what I am talking about.
Pleasantries are just what makes it possible for the ground to be so
fertile for conversations to develop.
Most often conversations are dead serious, and can range over a wide
variety of topics, grazing some and going deeply into others. These are conversations between pre-adolescents
playing with magic cards. These are
conversations among little girls playing with Barbie dolls, or with beanie
babies you may hate Barbie dolls, but I guarantee that you
wouldnt hate them as much if you could be a fly on the wall
listening to the elaborate and shared mental constructs that spring up around
Barbie play!
So,
why is this so important? Because,
partly, of play. Because conversation
is playing with ideas. Because
conversation is sharing your ideas with others, opening your mind to theirs,
and getting into theirs minds a bit.
Because conversation shapes and molds ideas. It is one of the primary ways we use to link other peoples knowledge with our own. It is the way that we have to link into other peoples unique viewpoints and ways of thinking. So, when we converse, we are aiming at not
just getting our ideas across to others, but allowing their interaction with
our ideas to reshape what we think. It
enhances our thought processes to share our thoughts; we also can build bridges
to other people by sharing thoughts with them; we come to understand them
better, and they learn to understand us better. Building this sort of bridge seems to be a primary need of
humans. It is the way we have developed
not to be lonely.
And
it also seems to be true that the ability to form these bridges, the ability to
get into conversations easily with others, and to profit from them
intellectually and emotionally, is a very important ability to develop. We all talk about adulthood as going out there. Well, it is a lot more likely to be a good going out there if
you are good at forging links into other peoples minds and ideas. That is a
big step toward success in what we talk about as the free marketplace of ideas!
Of
course, having developed your ability to communicate well is a tremendously
helpful tool in being able to form close relationships.
Kids
are the way you get them. To a very
large extent. That is, a great many of
their personality and character traits either exist when they are born, or are
formed so early we feel like they were intrinsic. It doesnt really matter that much which. So, if you assume that each child has a
certain integrity of being that you cannot change, you then have to start
wondering in what ways you would like to help your own kids, or other peoples, develop. I
dont think that there is a lot of real debate about this.
The
funny thing is that there is not a lot of debate about most of this stuff: all
child study specialists will tell you how important play is, but many do not
see that it is such a central feature of everyones daily
life, merely that young people develop more holistically if they can play a
lot. They dont follow the idea far enough to figure out that play
is key to learning and to creativity.
But leave that aside for a minute.
They might if they had the kind of experimental evidence that we
have! Meanwhile, research consistently
decries the lack of opportunity for real conversation in schools, and find that
lack oppressive to children.
The
usual solution posed to both of these things is so condescending as to be
breathtaking. It is that children be
allowed to play within narrow constraints in some places for some small part of
their school day, in ways related to the curriculum of course, and that they be
encouraged to take part more in discussions in classrooms. Free flow of ideas? NO!
Unstructured outcomes? I dont think so!
I
think that we could come up with a set of ideals for children that would be
pretty easily accepted by the majority of society today. Not all, but the majority. We want children to grow up confident in
their own ability to affect the outcomes in their own lives. We want children to grow up with a sound
sense of ethics, fair play, and tolerance.
We want children to grow up able to forge and maintain strong
relationships with people that they care about.
A
Sudbury school is the atmosphere that produces those outcomes for kids. And all people have to do is enroll them and
let them go. Let them learn to set their
own goals, achieve them or find new ones.
Let them make a ton of mistakes, and learn from them painfully. Let them work at a young age to build a
community based on respect for every individual. Let them work within an institutional framework that is shaped by
them and maintained by them. Let them
hear their own voices loud and clear.
And let them hear the voices of others.
That is what I have been talking about here. And that is what I think we all can agree on.
What
is this letting them go stuff. It is one thing to say let them play and
converse. It is another to say let them make all their own decisions. But that is
pretty much what I am saying. I am
saying let Sara choose not to learn about the stars if she is
not interested. Dont make John eat
asparagus. Let Brett choose not to ever listen to Bach if he
doesnt want to. Let Amy go to school without her sweater. Let Tom never learn algebra. And let them
amaze you by what they do think about when their thinking is not circumscribed
by a curriculum. Let them wow you with
the things they get into, from developmental psychology to pottery. Let them flower into even more interesting
members of the family than they were before; your reward for letting go: they
will be closer to you than you ever imagined.
They will thank you for the gift of freedom. They will be better parents that you were. They will be stronger about asserting their
rights in this world, and more cognizant that their privileges are privileges
to be guarded, than you could have hoped.
Here,
I would like to digress for a moment.
Sometimes people think that it is fine, they will send a kid to a free
school, allow the child to play all day while at school, and then make sure that they
fill in by tutoring the kids in all of the right areas and keeping them to a tight academic discipline
at home. Or, on the same theme, they
send the kid to school but try to get him or her to work according to an agenda
some of the time, because the kid still has tons of unstructured time. They think they can have their cake a curriculum
and eat it too (have freedom). School
is not necessarily a failure for these kids, but it isnt quite a success either. A kid who comes to school without an agenda and a child who comes
home into a family life where his choices are as respected as they are at
school has a tremendous advantage. That
child knows in his or her bones and heart, as well as mind, that s/he is
expected to make decisions about all aspects of life and education. They are, in fact, responsible for
themselves in a meaningful way and can freely take that responsibility with
total seriousness. They are not going
off just to have fun, secure in the idea that someone else is controlling the
important learning stuff.
Sudbury
schools cannot prevent a parent from enrolling a child and still going about
ensuring, outside of school, that the child learns what the parent wants it
to. But if you spend time in such a
school you can usually tell the difference between the children who are sent
there by parents who trust that the child is interested in growing into a
high-functioning adult, and the children whose parents dont really think their child can figure it out. It is a question of seriousness and
focus. The kid trusted by his or her
parents is free to make decisions and to focus with clarity upon whatever is
important at that moment in a complete manner.
The other kids are going to school only to play, only
to get social interactions.
Because their parents do not take their play seriously, neither do
they. Often they are the most
disruptive children in a school.
Parents
and kids are such a difficult subject to talk about. I often feel that I am talking around it, not about it. There are no people in a childs life who are more important than their parents. It may even be true that there are no people
in an adults life who
have more ability to affect the adults
emotions than their parents, unless it is their own children! It is inherent in the relationship between
parents and children. From the moment
of birth a child is totally dependent on the whims of the parent. Of course, they dont think about it that way then, but it is certainly
true. You ate, as a baby, either when
you wanted to or when your parents wanted you to. Regardless, they were in control. As an adult you eat when you want to, more or less. Infants are just plain unable to be
independent. They yell about it a lot,
sometimes, but it is a fact. So you are
totally a captive of your relationship to your parent from the word go. Childhood and young adulthood mark a
constant movement toward independence.
Parents can encourage that
often against their better judgment or contrary to their own emotional needs or put up with the consequences of discouraging
that. Whatever. You know yourself that a slight glimmer of
disapproval from your own parent has an entirely different impact on your ideas
and decisions than a big glimmer from someone else might have. So what does that mean? It means that you, as a parent, influence
your child not only in all the ways you know, and in all the ways you have
worked on exerting such influence since birth, but in a myriad of ways you dont know.
And
it means that if a parent wants to encourage a child to grow up whole and
independent the parent must let go, often even when she or he would rather
not. Parents have to allow the child
the same autonomy that a Sudbury school allows him or her. They must tread lightly, because in fact
they are the only people who have had a right to tread heavily, and because
just as a child reaches for independence and at the same time looks back
longingly on the warmth and security of dependence, parents too, are
conflicted, and must not visit that conflict on the child unless it is
necessary. For the good of children, if
you believe in children, parents must seek a role as much like the schools as possible: benign neglect some might call it; the
art of doing nothing others call it.
Perhaps
you feel that you have needs for your childrens maturity that I didnt mention. Interesting enough, I think that these needs
are going to be met too.
Now,
some of you might think that all of the wonderful outcomes will happen in the
most uninterrupted fashion. I wish that
were true. In fact, kids go through
periods of questioning their own abilities, partly because they are aware that
children are not respected in the larger community; and there are also periods
of boredom. When they question their
own abilities or become bored, the first and most destructive instinct parents
can have and who can blame them; it could hardly be more
natural is to help them figure out what they want to do and
how they want to spend their time. To
some extent that makes sense. Helping
another person think a problem through is one of the most wonderful things a
person can do for another person. But
way too often help from a parent includes, however gently put, the parents judgments about what a child, or even that
particular child, should do, in order to make life easier when they go
to college, for instance, or to insure that they get into whatever the parent
thinks is the right college, or to make sure they go to college at all. It almost becomes coercion, merely because
the parent is so powerful emotionally.
If you send a child to a Sudbury school you must be prepared to give
them space and to let them suffer.
Believe me, they will be suffering a whole lot less than their
contemporaries in other kinds of schools, but they will be suffering real life
problems: What do I really want to do? How do I go about learning to do it? What do I do now that I realize I dont, indeed, want to spend 8 hours a day playing Magic
Cards? The child has to feel that s/he
is in charge. To feel that, s/he has to
actually be in charge.
It
seems like it is time to do a little more description of this terrific thing I
have been touting the virtues of all this time.
Sudbury
schools have a lot of features in common.
I will talk about a few. We will
happily answer questions about others.
Every
student in a Sudbury school is free to pursue their own activities. This means that they can be wherever they
want, with whomever they want, doing whatever they want all day every day. That freedom embodies the fundamental
principle of the school and of course it is what I have been talking about
all this time: people free to engage in play, meaning the activities they
choose, and conversation, freely, figure out how to lead their lives in
productive ways. They dont need to be told what to do and what to learn. Learning just happens while they are doing
what they find they need to. There are
no age constraints on almost anything they might want to do. Their best friends may be 5 years older or 8
years younger. But even if their best
friends are their own age, they still spend time freely mixing with kids of all
ages as well as with adult staff members.
This age mixing is a central feature of every school. The opportunity to find out about whatever
you want from people who know a little more, and people who know a lot more, is
wonderful. It is exactly what
role-modeling is all about. And
sometimes your role-models are very young.
We have discovered that the youngest children are the best at figuring
out how to spend their time, and new kids at our schools, especially those 12
and over, always study how the younger ones spend their time in order to adapt
to freedom themselves. Being able to
learn from people who know a little more than you, and being able to teach
people who know a little less, is a tremendous spark to development. Of course, there is never a worry about
whether kids will be exposed to a broad variety of ideas when age mixing is the
norm. They cant help it.
Although
there are no classrooms in
a Sudbury school, usually the schools are set up with a lot of multipurpose
areas and some special purpose areas.
Computer areas. Kitchens. Art rooms.
Music rooms. Sometimes science
areas. There is no Sudbury school in
which books are not important, and access to the world through computers and
the Internet has of course become the norm.
Outdoor activities are important in every school. Sometimes there are organized games, mostly
there is outdoor play. I feel that part
of the covert curriculum in all Sudbury schools is that a child cannot attend
for long without developing a love for the outdoors. The other part of the covert curriculum, which I will talk about
later, is that a student finds a need to develop the ability to consider almost
any kind of ethical question.
The
school is an all-day affair. That is,
people come to school sometime during the morning, spend a good number of hours
there, and then go home again. That is
important because it means that it is hard to be late for school.
A Sudbury
school is a participatory democracy.
The schools are run by School Meetings, in which each student and each
staff member has one vote. The School
Meeting at Sudbury Valley meets weekly to talk about all facets of managing a
school. Some areas of responsibility
are assigned by the School Meeting to people or committees it has elected for
various administrative tasks; the rest are the business of the weekly meeting,
as are requests, problems and big decisions that the clerks and committees
have. School Meetings are run along the
general lines of Roberts Rules of Order.
They are staggeringly orderly and serious. But once you spend some time in one you realize why: the people
there are interested in getting their work done well and efficiently. The School Meetings are in no ways a student council. They are the entire group of students and
staff members meeting weekly to figure out how best to run the school. All of the schools rules are made there; staff is hired and fired
there; important judicial consequences are dealt with there; the budget is made
by the School Meeting; and any changes or deviations, which of course happen
with some frequency when you have a dynamic institution, are dealt with by the
meeting.
The
fact that the school is run democratically gives meaning to the freedom of the
school. Our educational philosophy
requires each student, no matter what age, to be responsible, totally, for her
own education. This only becomes real
when it is clear that such students must also be responsible for their
community. The sense of responsibility
informs each day of each students
life, and is taken completely seriously by everyone in the school. It is important in their choice of daily
activities, and in their attitudes toward the governance of the school.
No
one is ever patronized in a School Meeting.
It is assumed that each person, be they 60 or 6, debate at the full
level of their competence and intellectual strength. Complete deference is given to each point of view. Learning how to debate from masters is part
of the role-modeling that happens in the school. Decisions are made after careful listening and consideration, and
are taken by vote. No matter how sorry
you are that your points were not the ones eventually agreed to by the
majority, it is basically impossible to walk out of the School Meeting angry.
Here
are a couple of quotes from former students about how they felt about School
Meetings as kids, and then later:
I used to enjoy attending the School Meeting. Feeling equal is so important; that's the
whole thing. As a kid, it's extremely
important, because you feel that you have some authority, that you can express your feelings and
somebody's going to listen to you. If
somebody just throws a rule at you, it's a natural reaction to want to rebel
against it. But if you have something
to do with it, if you're part of a decision, that situation is an
advantage. I'm talking now as an adult,
but as a kid I was aware of it. I knew
that I had certain powers, like, "Hey, we voted staff." You knew you had power to vote people in,
vote people out.
I think I always knew, as long as I can remember, what
the School Meeting was: the place where
things got done and decisions got made.
Before I started going regularly, I did what most little kids do; they
go when something germane to them comes up.
At some point I can remember feeling maybe that wasn't right and maybe
everybody should go all the time, and then at some other point I decided that,
yes, it was ok, it was all right for me to let other people decide things that
I wasn't interested in. The image I had
was that somebody else was taking care of most things and I didn't have to
worry about it very much where "somebody else" was staff members and older students.
. . But the thing that went along with that image was that I felt I could
complain if there was something I thought wasn't right or something I thought
should be changed.
When I was older, I got really impatient at
meetings. I remember thinking that it
takes people so long to understand what other people are saying and people miss
the point of what other people are saying, and then say things that are way off
the point themselves. More recently
I've learned that people do these things a lot less at School Meetings than
they do in almost any other setting, and the School Meeting works as well as
any democratic meeting that I've ever seen.
School
Meetings figure out, as I said, how to spend the schools money. Often
this gives them a lot of experience in frugality, experience which has never
been known to hurt anyone, and in prioritizing various needs. Hiring
and firing staff is an awesome responsibility. And they make the rules. All of the rules. The rules about what is, or is not, considered reasonable
behavior in a small democratic community.
The rules about what various committees are allowed to, or are
responsible for, doing. They set the
parameters for life in the community of the school.
One
of the most important duties of a School Meeting is regulating behavior in the
school insofar as such behavior affects the community. The School Meeting could never, ever, in any
Sudbury School, decide what courses of study a person could follow. But it could decide whether or not to allow
littering, whether running in the building is ok, whether harming property is
okay, and where people can be allowed to play loud music.
Sudbury
Valleys disciplinary system is run through a Judicial
Committee, a subset of the School Meeting which handles the routine things that
have to do with discipline. The way
things go is that if someone in the school, anyone, no matter what their age,
sees an activity or an action that they feel is against the rules of the
school, they make a written complaint about it. This complaint is carefully investigated by the Committee, which
decides what it, the committee, thinks happened which may bear little relationship to what the complainant thought
happened and writes a report about it. Based on this report, the Committee can vote
to charge one or more people with having violated specific rules. The people can either plead guilty, or have
a trial. If found guilty (or if they
plead guilty) they can be sentenced.
Usually difficult complaints to sentence find their way to the School Meeting
floor, so that the whole community can be part of the sentencing. I know I went through a bunch of steps
quickly: the fact is that the important features of our Judicial system are:
due process is cared for and looked after every step of the way; the people
running the system are students, and furthermore students of all ages; it is
almost impossible not to get fairly treated; and kids of all ages understand
the system, mainly because due process is so carefully adhered to. The important things for us as we watch the
system unfold year after year are that the respect in the school for the
Judicial System mirrors precisely the value that kids set on the freedom that
they have; and that sentences, while not overseen by anyone, are almost
universally obeyed.
I
would like to turn to some quotes from our former students about the Judicial
Committee to show how important a tool it is in the life of the school.
The Judicial Committee was your tool for making people
understand that it's not that running down the hall is the crime of the
century; but let's say I'm walking down the hall with a tray full of fragile
things and you run into me that's not something I really want to encounter. Learn to live your life in the context of
not making your freedom impinge on the freedom of somebody else. I had learned it myself through the same
process. I went from being a
self-centered person to realizing the effect of my activities in a larger
scope, and I would make adjustments to my behavior.
The judicial system was an interesting center of
conflict in the school. Especially
trials. All the time that I was
involved, trials were very rare, so that having one was kind of a special occasion. There would be a lot of buildup and people
would talk about it, and then there would be people arguing their cases and
trying to convince each other, and it would come down to what the jury thought
at the end, so that was always really fascinating. I think the drama of it was very interesting to me. I mean, the justice of it was nice, but I
don't think that was interesting in and of itself.
There was no way not to get fair treatment if you got
brought up. The committee investigated
and they made some kind of report, and if the report was wrong, then it was not
that important because it could get cleared up in the trial. There were enough checks and balances. It was quite difficult to get convicted of
something that you weren't guilty of.
This was important to me because I took advantage of
it sometimes. I was a real stickler,
and if people brought me up for things that I knew were wrong, but weren't
against the rules, I wasn't about to let myself get convicted of breaking a
rule that I know I hadn't broken. As a
defendant, I wasn't scared, but I was nervous.
It's more like the fear you experience when you're going to talk in
front of a group of people, than the fear that you experience when you're
afraid of bad things that are going to happen to you. I was always more afraid of being embarrassed than being
convicted. In general, it was important
for me to learn that I could defend myself and convince people that I was
right.
Often
parents who decide on a Sudbury school for their children are not doing it
because it is a democratic community. I
think that makes sense; they are looking at it in a much more individualized
manner. But there is no way to minimize
the extent to which being in a democracy shapes the childs view of the world.
It is personal empowerment to be individually free, but the empowerment
is not as meaningful if you do not have control over your society. Democracy means that you, along with
everyone else, can shape that society to fit your own ideals. Democracy means that whatever happens you
have a role in it. Often people are
worried that democracy in a school just means that the majority exercise a
tyranny over the minority. That is not
borne out in our experiences in such institutions. In fact, democracy means the free sharing of ideas and working
through them to find the ones that are most acceptable and most user
friendly. It means everyone in the
community understanding the decisions of the community and being able to live
with them whether or not they agreed in the beginning. It doesnt
get in the way of personal fulfillment, because no one will let it.
And
democracy means equality. It is one
thing to say that a 10 year old is equal to a 20 year old; it is another to
live it. And through living it people
become sure about it. Their autonomy
creeps into their entire beings.
People
often worry that children who go to Sudbury schools are not able to fit into
the broader society. They worry that
students who go to such schools will not be able to have a boss; they worry
that their kids will not meet college requirements. I want to end by looking a little at both of these things.
Kids
who are in charge of their school are used to working in a lot of different
kinds of situations in which there are lots of interactions with other
people. Maybe they have to set up ways
to use the computer facilities of their school. Maybe they have to work together to plan a dance, or put on a
play, or bring an activity into the school that needs a budget. We have special interest groups that form,
some forever, and some just for a year or two, called school corporations. In many situations things are set up so
that someone has some executive power.
This is an efficient way to get things done, and if you can remove those
executives at any time, your rights are safeguarded. So they are used to being executives, to having responsibility,
and they are also used to following a plan laid out by someone else. More to the point, they understand why that
is a good way to get many things done.
So having a boss is not a problem
our kids are usually appreciated by people they work for, because they are so
good at listening and making decisions, and so serious about what they do.
College
is never an issue for someone who has spent their time in such an
environment. The worst thing they
usually have to face at college is not that someone may know more than they do
in one area or another; it is that the other kids who have chosen to go to
college have often chosen for less profound reasons than they have. Our kids go to college to get something that
they feel they need. Others often go
for the social experience, for the experience of leaving home, for the freedom,
etc.
Here
is what a former student said about going to college; this encapsulates why the
school doesnt worry about it:
When I went to college, I felt prepared beyond the
needs of college in some ways. I had
been at a school where you get things done yourself, where people don't spoon
feed you. At Sudbury Valley, you get a
track record. You do things and you get
things done and you do them by yourself or with others with other children or with other adults. And you establish self-confidence because
you can get something done; you see how it works and you go after it.
I
recently read an article about Accountability.
It was in a journal published by the Federal Reserve Bank, and the
subject was fiscal equalization in schools in the state of Kentucky. I just happened to see this article by the
most accidental of accidents I am not
really very concerned with the fiscal ins and outs of public schools; I, like
the rest of the staff in any Sudbury school, spend lots of time trying to
figure out how to make private schools run on much smaller amounts per student
than any but the most poverty-stricken public schools. But included in this article, as a footnote,
was what the Kentucky Supreme Court decided, in 1989, was the set of subject
areas that were important.
This
is it; every state right now is worried about assessments, about testing, and
about making sure that all students can jump through hoops. But Kentucky, 11 years ago, had a much more
reasoned response and it exactly sets out what kids are in fact certain to
learn through the Sudbury model of schooling:
(1)
sufficient oral and written communications skills to enable citizens to
function in a complex and rapidly changing world;
(2)
sufficient knowledge of the social sciences so that as an adult a citizen will
be able to make informed choices about public policies and issues affecting the
community, state or nation;
(3)
sufficient knowledge of psychology and the health sciences so that as an adult
a citizen will have the capacity to assess and maintain physical and mental
well-being;
(4)
sufficient grounding in the arts so that as an adult a citizen will appreciate
his/her historical and cultural heritage;
(5)
sufficient training to enable a citizen to choose a vocation intelligently; and
(6)
sufficient academic and vocational skills to enable a citizen to compete
favorably in either academic or vocational settings nationwide.
I
challenge you to find a product of a Sudbury school education who does not have
these content areas well mastered!